Stewing

What is it to stew, I ask myself,
to bubble and brew, to simmer,
to sit in heat, yes, but what kind?

On one hand, a pot on the stove,
a warm, hearty endeavor,
where carrots, potatoes, maybe a bit of beef
join forces in a slow dance of flavor,
each piece softening, giving itself up
to the warm embrace of broth,
the way things blend when given time.

But then, there’s the other—
that brooding, murky mind stew,
a darker affair.
The silent churn of an unsettled heart,
the endless reheating of small grievances,
a smoldering over slights and worries,
turning them over, poking at embers,
not wanting to let them cool.

One stew asks for a ladle, a spoon,
a dash of salt, a glug of wine—
says patience and taste,
take your time, let things meld.

The other—oh, it wants no seasoning,
it wants only to feed itself,
to stir up sour thoughts,
and let them stew in silence,
until the pot overflows with bitterness.

So here I am, at the edge of the kitchen,
where thoughts and tastes divide,
wondering if I should simmer in anger
or let things go soft and savory.

I turn to the pot, lift the lid,
inhale the blend of thyme, onion,
and something tender beneath.
Yes, I think,
I’d rather let life stew this way—
warm, fragrant,
a meal to be shared,
than let my thoughts stew alone,
without salt, without joy,
without a spoon.

Politics and Snowflakes

We expect too much from government
Too much from politicians–
those we elect to lead us
Those to whom we entrust the public interest

Elected officials should be accountable
That’s not my point. My point is:
Never ask someone else to do
what you must do for yourself

Perhaps you disagree
and that’s alright, but
consider what we abdicate to strangers
we ask to sit in high places, like gods

Those we ask to make change on our behalf
Change most likely we should make in ourselves
Gandhi had it right:
Be the change you want to see in the world

I’ve tired of all the political promises
Those kept, those broken
Those kept can be the worst, especially those
dragging us from one extreme to another

I try not to be cynical about politics, but
I’m tired of senseless power struggles, and
all the he said she said’s
For me, November will always be about Thanksgiving

Snowflakes make more sense than politics
especially during election years
Each is different, but together they make snow
and they don’t make promises they can’t keep